I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return from a partner; Everybody makes mistakes and I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's going to be over .I do not want to meet someone who can cheat and lie under false pretenses. Sorry if that sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing you of any wrongdoing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that.